Dawne - posted on 04/30/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
My son was planning on going to his step sisters wedding, out of state. He is not in the wedding party, just invited to go. He originally said he woud go, 3 months ago. Recently (a month) he started dating a girl and asked her to Prom, both are Juniors.Prom falls the day after his step sisters wedding, which again is out of state. His dad can cancel the ticket. My dilemma is, he wasn't thinking about wedding dates for a step sister he has seen twice in the last 3 years when he asked his girlfriend to prom. It didn't occur to me to even question the date when he told me he was going to ask her. His step mom is angry, his dad says his grandma, who is not the stepsisters grandma but by marriage, is angry and my son shouldn't call. I'm torn as to whether to advise him to go to the wedding, or to say Go for Prom!, make your memory. his girlfriend has bought the dress, they have plans with friends....he doesn't even want to talk to his dad. What should my advice to him be?