Ssuan - posted on 04/29/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
I never married my son's father. His father is now married and for the most part we all get along very well.
But they are trying to control every aspect of his life. We never went to court to discuss custody rights and we share equal amount of time and responsibilities. My problem is when it comes to making educational and medical decisions she acts like she is his mother and so does his dad. For example: my son's has to have some genetics testing done and I made sure with his dad that he would be available to take him because I work 9-to-5 and he does not. Plus I have already taken a lot of time off for other of his dr. appts...so anyway, then he tells me he has to work and that his stepmom will be taking him. So I postponed it for a later date so I can go. I do not feel it is her place to take him. Does anyone think I am wrong.? Please help me with any suggest on how to handle this problem.