Gina - posted on 01/31/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
My son's father has always lived for himself. Yes, he has provided for his kids and shown love, but he never puts them 1st before making any decision. He took me to court for visitation and although I know he can do as he pleases he has yet to spend any time alone with his kids. He does everything with whom ever he may be dating at the time. The last thing he did was that he went on away for a or 2 and left my son in the care of his girlfriends uncle. my son went to an amusement park with the girls uncle and he was suppose to drop my son of at the end of the day to my son fathers sister. I had no idea this was going on by the time I knew my son was at the amusement park his answer was well you know I can't go b/c I recently had surgery but yet he went on a trip away with his girlfriend. He told me that if I feel he's such a bad Dad I should take him to court and take away all his rights. I told him I could not believe what he was saying and that it showed how much he loved his kids by saying such thing. He went and told my our son from his mouth that he wouldn't changed his life for anyone that he didn't think he did anything wrong by sending him with the girls uncle but he was not going to stop his life all because he had a son. I was in awe when I heard this I am so confused I don't know what to do. I know my son is dealing with a lot of pain he's 13 years old and his dad thinks that because he's a boy he can say the things he says to him.
What advice can anyone give me? I am really confused! Can anyone relate?