My son won't give me his Facebook password and I'm considering homeschooling.

Martha - posted on 03/19/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I have a question about a 6 month power struggle I'm having with my 11 year old son. My 11 year old is in 6th grade. At my 11 year olds son middle school and elementary they allow cell phones during times when the students aren't learning such as during lunch time or when there is a substitute teacher. Kids let other kids use their cell phones. 6 months ago, I discovered my son borrowed a cell phone to create a Facebook when he was 8. I confronted my son about this. He admitted to this. I even saw posts on other websites during school hours connected to his name and on his Facebook wall. I demanded his password. He wouldn't give it to me. I explained to him why I wanted his password (predators, bullying) and his father showed him a Dr. Phil episode about a girl being raped by a man she met on a cellphone with internet and how cyber bullied kids committed suicide. I had him sit at the dinner table until he gave me his password. He sat there all day Saturday and Sunday. Then I tried other consequences such as taking away TV, computer and friend privileges and he still didn't give me his password. I told the school not to let him borrow cell phones and he didn't listen to them and they gave up after 2 months. They gave him lunch and after school detention and he took cell phones and didn't give them up he was using them in detention the school tried to grab them from him and the school gave up after 2 months. A month ago his teacher was absent from one week because she was feeling sick. During that week, my son watched rated movies with friend's cell phones. I know because he even told me what they are about. It has been 6 months already he still hasn't given me his password. I report his account daily and have multiple friends report his account daily since the day I discovered he had a Facebook, no luck. What should I do?

P.S. I was also thinking about homeschooling him because of this. Please give me advice on that?

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/19/2013

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Also, if the movie was of sexual nature, make sure to tell the school about this, and contact whoevers phone your son was using....their parents.

It is time to talk about sex with your son, before he learns it all from tv.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/19/2013

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First of all, start attending PTA meetings and bring up your concern about cell phone use at school. if you need to start a petition with other parents to enforce a no cell phone policy, do it. Bring it up to the principal what is happening. If he ignores it, go up the chain of command, and even the board of directors. I firmly believe schools should have a no cell phone policy in place during ANY school hours.

Now talk with your son and show him the clause about facebooks age requirement. Then write a note to facebook people, and tell them that your son illegally has an account that you did not approve. That you want it removed immediately. See where that gets you. Now you need to place parental controls on your computer, and start seriously taking away privileges. I think homeschooling for this would be a last resort that I personally would not think of doing for this kind of rebellion.

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