Faye - posted on 02/07/2015 ( no moms have responded yet )
My oldest son graduates high school and he will let me walk him down the aisle with him, his dad and his stepmother but I am not allowed to be involved with the social or anything else because it wiil upset the step mother too much to have me there. I do not fight with her, I do not see her as I live in another province. She has been there to help parent my child. But he said since she helped raise him this was the only thing that him and his dad could think of to keep the peace.
I am COMPLETLY heart broken over this. I have always had a excellent relationship with my son. Anytime he called and needed something I gave it to him.
So if this happens that what will happen in the future!? I won't be allowed to attend his wedding, be a part of my grandchildrens lives??
His father has never tried to have a parenting relationship with me and if I try and talk to him about this it is going to be A big arguement.
At this point I don't even want to go to the Grad. It would be a public humiliation.
I love my son clearly and this has broken my heart. Some advice would be so greatful.