Melissa - posted on 01/04/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
Hello, I'm in need of some advise! - my son is 3, I split with his dad shortly after he turned one. The contact has been up and down, he had him 3 days a week at first.. Then it went onto one evening a week and every other weekend, ever since meeting his girlfriend it has dropped to every other weekend, if I am I'll in hospital or needing help from him or his family they have an attitude of they will not if it is not on there designated day, he promised my son twonweeks holiday a year for the last two years, on both occasions he chose to go away to visit his girlfriends family instead.. Any ideas as to how I can get him to care about his son?! He didn't see him over Christmas - Evan though its the first real year my boy understands about Santa! Obviously refused to have him new year due to the fact he had a party.. I just am at my Whits end, sick of fighting with someone to see his son as arranged.. And to act like a father at all times not just 4 days in the month!