Gabrielle - posted on 08/26/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
I just found out that my exboyfriend is dating a girl that has a daughter the same age as my son. We split custody of my son 50/50. I graduated high school with her years ago so we have been friends on Facebook, but should I ask to meet her as his girlfriend? I have no issues as far as jealousy or feeling hurt from him dating someone else. I just feel uncomfortable that she has a child. I definitely wasn't expecting that.
This is the first girl he has dated since we broke up 10 months ago. I meet someone soon after we broke up, but we've been dating for 6 months and he is just now starting to be around my son. The exboyfriend never cared what i did or who i was dating. I want to say something but I don't know how to do it without looking crazy for wanting to be so involved. Should I maybe try to get more custody?
I'd rather be around my son more to give him indivual attention rather than him having to compete with the girlfriends little girl. Am I overthinking this??? What should I do?