Lindsay - posted on 01/23/2016 ( 15 moms have responded )
Ok so I will make this as brief as possible. I was with my sons father for a little over 6 months when I found out I was pregnant. I felt although I wasn't ready, at 28 I should of been well aware of the consequences in not having protected sex. Well he at 31 didn't care he said get an abortion as he has 3 year old twins at the time and was not ready for more nor wanting the responsibility. He said if you don't I will leave in which he sure did.. As a matter of fact he left and a month and half later met a crazy Psycho gf who had three of her own kids and thinks it's perfectly fine he hasn't seen his child (my son is almost 10 mos old). When I took him to court and paternity was proven, he kept asking about visitation. As I saw it and still see it because he has yet to serve me; is he is only saying that to look good and plus because he has to pay me. He only had to pay $52 a month though because he doesn't make sufficient amount and he had two other children to pay for. Since the last court date and me explaining he could only see his son supervised, he had only paid me $40 and is in arrears . He also made his ex delete me off social media (the mother to his twins) and told her to not associate with me. He is being friendly with her for the kids and has been there for those children, but refuses to be friendly or co parent with me; yet is being super spiteful.. Can someone please explain or simplify the situation as to why he is doing this if he is the one who walked out on me and has yet to see or acknowledge his son!