my sons girlfriend has abandond her daughter

Michelle - posted on 02/14/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )

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For the last year I've had my granddaughter as her mum does not want her my son has gone to live with her and her son I feel so lonley cause my son has give up all his beautiful family including his 1st child for a future with an abusive partner who won't let him work or see his family he was my best friend I've had to give up my job my dad's dying of cancer and I've lost my son I don't no who to turn to

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Michelle - posted on 02/15/2015

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Thank you for getting back to me yeah in a way he's abandoned her my son comes back to see his girl as and when and there would be no way I would give my granddaughter to anyone I love her with all my heart I have a very special bond with her she is my world my son don't want his girlfriend to have anything to do with his daughter or her violant son I just can't understand why he goes backwards and forwards to her she has been awful to our living and caring family we are a hard working family all we do is work and go on holidays to what we can afford my grandad passed away and she would not let him come see his great grandad before he passed then I had an operation and nearly lost my life we asked her to help look after her child she told us well I won't say the word but was not very polite she came round and tried to a attack me she is very jelous of mine and my sons relationship it's a long story but she has no father and her mum was horrible to her she ended up in care she lost a baby at the age of 15 I really feel for her so I took her into my home whilst I was working she bit by bit distroyed my home with the help of her son she would say things was an accident but I knew they want in the end I asked her to move out I helped her decorate her home I bought them a car I've done everything possible to help her she throws it back in my face I don't get it my son sticks up for me but goes back a week later it's been a very upsetting time as my own dad has just had part of his spine removed and been in intensive care having cemo he's so ill she seems to enjoy inflicting hurt and seeing us suffer she plays with her daughters life social services are involved and I'm just going through with custody I just wish my son would come away from her he deserves better we have never had anything like this in our life's my son is so kind and caring he's a heart of gold I just don't no what's gotten into him he's got a good job within the family some kids would love what's he's got I hate her for putting us through all this but in my heart I feel sorry for what's she's gone through I would never stop her from seeing her daughter I incourage it for my granddaughters sake she just refuses to see her I'm just sad and lonley with my own feelings at this moment as I have no control over my son anymore I love him with All my heart but he's old enough to no what hes doing my granddaughter has no voice to say what she wants all I can say is she is safe with me and gets all the love and attention she needs and more x thank you for your support x

Jodi - posted on 02/14/2015

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Shouldn't the heading read "My son AND his girlfriend abandoned their daughter", because it sounds to me like they both abandoned her.

What was their reasoning for abandoning the child. She obviously has another child. I'd ask Child Protection to assess that situation if she can so readily abandon her daughter. Also, if you are wanting to raise the child, file for guardianship/custody, and make sure you get child support from them to help you support the baby. If you don't feel you can raise the child, then you need to try and encourage the parents to put the child up for adoption to a couple who DO want a child, because it isn't fair to this little girl not to have the loving home she deserves.

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