Yvette - posted on 05/18/2015 ( 7 moms have responded )
Hi, I have three grown sons aged 24,22,& 19. None of them have respect for me, they talk down to be. When I try and talk to my sons they walk away mumbling. It kills them to talk to me, when they do they are rude. I blame it all on my husband for not speaking up to them when they are disrespectful. My husband is the man of the house and he should not allow his sons to treat their mom with disrespect. This bring me down really bad, I cry a lot and get depressed over this. I have asked them several times why they are the way they are with me. They either have no answer or just tell me I am weird. I stayed home with my three sons until my youngest went to school full days. I then went to work part time to full time. I went off work three years ago with depression, actually PTSD. Have not been to work since my last day. Had a rough three years. My depression made matters worse with my husband and kids. None of them understood, nor did they want to understand. I gave them all sorts of information on depression, Anxiety and PTSD. None of them bothered to read any of it including my husband. I feel so lost, I really do. Everyday I want to move out and go my own way but don't have the guts. My youngest one is the only one living home, my middle boy moved away for his job almost a year ago, my eldest moved out December past. I was the last to find out he was moving out. What have I done wrong besides love and adore my boys, and give them to much. My heart is broken. Please help me Please..