Jessica - posted on 02/22/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I am 23 years old and got married last march. My husband has 3 sons with his ex wife who live with us full time, they never see her. These kids have been threw heck and back. She is a horrible person. Anyways we have been together for almost three years and here lately I am getting to the point that I can't even stand to look at my oldest step son. He is so spoiled rotten. My mother in law still holds him in her lap and rocks him. And he is 8. He loves to start fights between me and my mother in law and also my husband. He does nothing wrong in her eyes and the other two are always getting in trouble for the same things he does. She buys him toys and candy and stuff and not the other two. He throws fits like a 4 year old and whines over everything. If I don't cook dinner when he is ready to eat he follows me around huffing and stomping his feet. If I'm helping his brothers with stuff he interrupts and makes sure I don't finish stuff with them. My husband is a correctional officer and you would think he would be more hands on with the boys and making sure they are respectful and things. But I feel more like a single parent raising kids that arnt mine. If me and my husband try to have any alone time (thinking they are asleep) the 8 year old will stand outside our door and ask what we r doing or start crying. He drives me crazy :( and feel horrible because I can't stand him.