my step year son suffers from bed weeting n adbuse from real mom

Alexandria - posted on 09/06/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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i need help, i have an 8 year old step son that we got cusdity of in jan bc his mom hit n adbused him in every way,m she only gets him everyother weekend but brain washes him n adbuse him everytime he talk to her she does the u dont love me or whant to come see me crap, he suffer from bed wetting depression bc of all this, howb can i help him bs side all the pro help hes getting,n is there any way to help her become a better mom befor she losses him completly i love him but dont want to take her place but almost have bc he tells me i way better mom then she has ever been, i hate seeing him so sad, we had to take him to er when he came home from her bc he got hurt n didnt take him to doc, why do people like this. Have kids?i have two bio kids n two step kids kids my step kids have differnet moms please help

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Alexandria - posted on 09/11/2012

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We. Tryed for that when we went to court n didnt have enough evdince so we r hoping that with conseling he will tell her n she will call state on bio mom so we have the prove we need. I dont see how parnets can do this it breaks my heart

Michelle - posted on 09/06/2012

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If she is abusing him on her visits be it mental or physical you need to be seeking out supervised visitations this way she still gets to see him but it is in a controlled environment. This is the best way to start helping him deal is to get rid of the abuse. Children need love and stability to thrive and it doesn't sound like he is getting enough from his bio mom so it is time for bio dad to step in and put a stop to the abuse

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