My teen daughter hates me and abuses me

Deborah - posted on 01/11/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My teen daughter used to keep me in the center of her life now she hates me verbally and physically abuses me we've been in and out of therapy since her father had a stroke and 9 yrs later died. I pray and everything , it helps but I think I'm dying of broken heart syndrome

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Mon - posted on 07/22/2017

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I am going through the same thing, except I divorced my daughters dad. She an I used to very close, but ever since middle school...she is a badass in her mind. We can't go 1 day without having an ugly fight. She moved in with her dad because she didn't respect our home, she got caught stealing, partying & just doing whatever the hell she wanted. So I thought he would give her a stricter up bringing. But he didn't. He let her do whatever she wanted....basicly he ignored her. She had partys at his house and he would lock himself (hide) in his bedroom. Then one day the damn broke & he beat the crap out of her. So she moved back in with me and now life is MISERABLE!!! We argue everyday.She skips school, got caught stealing (again) have other teens stomping through my home...eating everything in sight, more partying (weed) I was sick with bronchitis & the meds knocked me out, I woke up the next morning to starngers sleeping in her room!!! I try to have a conversation about her respecting the values and rules of our home, it just ends terribly. She is now in therapy, but it's just not working. She said, my therapist loves to hear about all your shit, we think your a bad mom. Things are so bad, I want to run away from home!!! She will be turning 18 next month and I really hope she moves out, I am not sure where she'll go. I work full time and can get all the overtime I want. So this week I put in 50 hours, I come home to a filthy kitchen, seriously, not 1 clean dish in the house! I told her to clean it up...her reply was, you fn clean it. She and her friends had the air kicked down to 65, with all my windows open...it was hot (of course) and they needed fresh air (see why I need the OT?) This is now my life. I understand how you feel. I am angry and sad at the same time....I love her & hate her,,,at the same time. & yes my one day off will be spent scrubbing down the kitchen.It never ends.

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