My teenage daughter and (ex)boyfriend

KatyMom - posted on 09/10/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My daughter fell head over heels for this boy last summer (2012), it was love at first sight for her, and from what he has told me the same for him. She was 14, now 15, he was 15 and now 16, I could tell he was madly enlove with her as she was him, he treated her like a princess and she treated him like a king. There was so much affection and emotion between them. He came to me, and told himself that he was enlove with my daughter, as crazy as this sounds I knew I was looking at my daugther's future husband, I knew even before he came to me.. Anyway, he came to me, and told me he was enlove with my daughter and he felt like she was the one for him. I talked to him about changes, the struggles etc, etc, and he was very firm about not wanting to lose her or ever give up because things got hard, he made promises, . As time passed, I grew to love this boy as my own also, he's a great kid, and he's mature beyond his years... After a few months of dating they started having problems about an ex girfriend of his, and my daughter and him broke up for almost 2 months, I was devasted, and prayed for them to make their way back together, they did get back together but it didn't last long, and now they have broken up again, my daughter is devasted, and I'm devasted again, because now he won't even speak to my daughter, and he won't even speak to me, he won't answer her calls, texts, or facebook messages, I pray every night that they find their way back together again. I have even gone to see a Pyshic, (which I have never done) and without telling her anything about my daughter and her boyfriend, she did say they would get back together, that they still love each other, that he is still enlove with her. But I am at a loss, I wish there was something I could do. I have messaged him on facebook as someone else, and he admitted that he still cares for my daughter, I tried to encourage him to work things out, but he has not budged! I know there is more people out there, but How can I let go when in my heart and my intuition tells me that this boy is for my daughter? How can I help these kids get back together?

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Amy - posted on 09/11/2013

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I agree with Jodi you need to step out if the equation completely! Stop calling, texting, and messaging him on Facebook if that happened to me when I was 16 I would of gone to the police for harassment. They are too young to be pressured, if it was meant to be it'll happen but it shouldn't be forced, and he shouldn't feel pressure to be with your daughter.

Jodi - posted on 09/11/2013

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Leave them alone!! The more you push, the less likely this will work out, and if you keep on his back and messaging him, believe me, you will scare him away. If they are meant to be together, it will happen, but you need to back off. They are way too young to be pressured into something so serious and long term.

KatyMom - posted on 09/10/2013

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Physics/Mediums does anyone have someone they "HIGHLY" recommend, I don't want someone who is flashy, I need a genuine person!

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