My troubled 20 yr. old

Yolanda - posted on 07/16/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




Well I finally told her she had to leave my home yesterday after the day before of her disrespectful attitude towards me that's been going on since she moved back home 2 months ago. I just couldn't take it any more . It was really saying me down. I have to show her tough love . She defends her disrespect by telling me she's gonna do what she wants in my house and have who she wants. She doesn't realize that ef attitude will get her no where . As it is she had to come home after only doing 1 year of college on a basketball scholarship because she disrespected her coach. She just doesn't see it, but she will feel it that life and the world old care less about her anger . It hurts me to my heart but I had to put my foot down before her younger sister follows her disrespect, as I started to see this happen. She's not on the streets but now living with my x husband her dad, who I know is throwing me u nder the bus also. But in my house you will show respect for yourself and others. Not to mention I'm consistently involved in church and the cussing I just can't deal with. But my heart seriously hurts but I will stand my ground .


♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 07/16/2015




Yolanda, tough love is hard! Harder on the parent at this point, but...
You did just fine. Your daughter apparently thought that she was cream of the crop and has found out that attitude carried her exactly nowhere.
You have a church family, and your faith. Be strong in that. You love your daughter, and that is fine, but you don't have to be exposed to her hurtful attitudes.
Hang in there!

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