Mary - posted on 11/09/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
being separated,then divorced I decided to marry another man,which I love.my thinking was I know my children will grow up, then leave the nest@ some point. got along well with my new hubby, then he married .I was put behind her mom waiting til boxing day for our turkey dinner, etc., etc.. then they had an upset. suddenly I was popular. that was good,but didn't coax her as what to do. now I'm at the pooint where the only times i see them is at Xmas,thksgiving& easter. ie.- i phoned yesterday & asked my son if he wanted a couch &lov seat,said would talk to wife. I phonedback today& she hadn't heard a thing. so much for our generosity. I'm at the point where I feel i don't even know them,just want to walk away...........