Aricka - posted on 01/24/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )
We named our first daughter after her alive grandma. and now I am having trouble on this. My boyfriend/mother want our daughter to be named after his deceased family member. The first name was of his aunt but we thought that name would be to emotional for everyone. Now he is bringing up his cousin which is the daughter of our aunt that tragically died. he feels that Jamie was taken from us and we should honor her. I feel that our daughter should have her own name. I don't want to seem like a cold heart ed person. I think that she should have her own identity,personality and own name. I am saying no and he doesn't want to here anything else. Help how do I handle this??