Narcissistic daughter

Debbie - posted on 07/22/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My daughter kicks me out of her life almost as routinely as she changes her underwear, yanks the grandkids away. I love and have helped raise my grandkids while she was out trying to find herself. As long as I give her money, we are great, but stop the money and we are done. She has drained her father(my ex) of all of his money and might I say his pain pills as well. Recently she has told CPS that one of my sons molested her son ( they have been best buds since childhood). Everything that comes out of her mouth is a lie and designed to make her look like a poor helpless victim. It's been almost a year since I've seen her and my grandkids. I think for me this is probably the best thing for me, I'm just done with all the drama with her. I hope some day I can have a relationship with my grandkids. I'm taking care of me now, it's long overdue.

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Laura - posted on 07/22/2016

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Take care of yourself. I have been in your shoes, and yes, it is sad the grandchildren cannot see you, but it is not something you can control right now. Your daughter sounds like she has a big problem, and being manipulative to get money is one sign of addiction. If you think your grandchildren are in any danger, PLEASE call the Protective Services in your community. It may make your daughter upset, but children come before substance abuse. Your step to take care of yourself is hugely important. Best of luck,

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