Maryke - posted on 02/17/2014 ( 29 moms have responded )
hi there. I would reallllly like some advice. I don't know which option to choose. natural birth or c section. I really don't want to go through the whole vagina tearing process and I really hate blood and needles and im just too scared and I don't know if I will be able to take the pain. and on the other side the c section which is starting to look more viable seems to promise a very long recovery period?? and I don't want to struggle when I really want to hold or pick up my baby. so I know there are a lot of pros and cons to each side, but I want personal info from mothers who experienced this before. can you please help with some facts on each side..