Need advice

Alexandra - posted on 07/26/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Hi,I'm 39 and my boyfriend is 25.I have two kids 21&19 from my previous marriage,yes after 17 years of marriage he left.Now my young age but old soul boyfriend ask me to marry him.I love and need him but I have so much fear within myself. Afraid that it won't work,etc... I'm lost,help!

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/26/2016

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How long have you been dating?

I personally will not remarry if my husband and I divorce. Also, I personally don't care about your 14yr age difference, but your children might. This can be a huge impact on your relationship if they do not approve. Another thing, are you wanting more kids? Does he want children of his own (if you don't want kids) I mean, he has a lot of living to do, and there are definitely red flags in any relationship but can be more so when the age difference is 40 (essentially) and 25.

If you have not been together very long, I would wait. What is the rush? How long have you been divorced for? You also need time to heal, move on, and play the field if you like. Jumping for one marriage to the next never seems to benefit anyone.

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