Need advice

Rachel - posted on 10/03/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I've been married for almost 12 years and have two children with my husband. I feel my husband is a good person but he has a lot of baggage and demons he deals with. He also has an additive personally. He has smoked pot and done several types of drugs since he was very young. After our first child was born he went into a in patient drug rehab center for over 8 months. After he came home he was clean for about a year. Then he started slowly smoking pot and abusing pills behind my back. He was so manipulative and lied all the time. Well this when on for alittle while then he started smoking crack again but this time he was out of control so I kicked him out of the house so he moved 8 hrs away with his brother for a year. Then stayed clean for alittle bit enough for me to trust him to come back and live with us. Then our second child was born then he started smoking pot again. Then started abusing the pills addreall. This time he went to the dr and he prescribed him this drug. Well know he is abusing thus drug because he can't manage to take the right dosage to last him the entire month so for the last week he is out and acts so mad and has wild mood swings it is crazy. I have given him an ultimatum now he has to stop pot, addreall and anything else or he needs to get out.

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Joanne - posted on 10/04/2012

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His irritability could be due to drug withdrawals. Also, whenever an individual takes drugs for a length of time, his body gets very toxic. This toxicity causes bio-chemical personality which is the anger issue and short temperment. What can really help is vitamin supplements. Drugs burns vitamins in the body and leaves the toxins in the cells. So taking vitamin supplements helps tremendously and can assist in calming him down. You can purchase these vitamins online at www.vites.com The product is called "Drug Withdrawals Formula." Many drug rehab centers use this supplement to help drug withdrawal symptons. Have your husband take the recommended dose daily. It should help him considerably. Hope this helps you.

Rachel - posted on 10/04/2012

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Sorry I didn't get to complete my comment. I clicked on submit before I was finished. Anyways to make a long story short right now he is trying to quit everything but I don't know how to deal with it. He is just one big ball of anger. He sits around the house just feeling sorry for himself and anyone that steps in his path he will yell at. He will find something to complain about no matter what it is. It can be as small as yelling at my son for jot flushing the toilet or leaving his tv on in his room. Then if I try to interfere he turns his angry toward me and says things like I undermind him. He does have a decent job and can function at work pretty well its just when he gets home and he not high on something he is an ass. I just have had it and I can't handle the roller coaster ride he puts me on every day. Any advise would be helpful.

Joanne - posted on 10/03/2012

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Your husband can't just stop his drug abuse. He needs help. Usually, drug addiction has got to do with lost of self esteem. When he was clean (after coming back from rehab), did he work during that first year? Did he stop associating with his old druggie friends? Environment is very important as one can easily fall back into old bad habits if one goes back to old druggie friends. Narconnon Drug Rehab center is very good.

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