Kim - posted on 07/14/2013 ( 11 moms have responded )
I am currently 24 weeks pregnant and emotionally drained. I met my bd 5 yrs ago, he is 20 yrs old and I am 22, we’ve been always on and off because I didn’t want to settle with someone who kept doing drugs but I do love him. His family was like my second family and I was always with them from the day I was introduced to them. When I told my bd that I was pregnant he seemed excited and wanted to be supportive, along with his parents. I was not thrilled when I found out I was pregnant because I wanted to be married first but I got over that as my pregnancy progressed. Well two months after I told my bd and his parents I was pregnant, I found out that another girl was seeing him and they all kept it a secret from me. I don’t understand why they would deny that they talk to her and etc. Well I confronted my bd mother about her saying she doesn’t talk to this girl he is seeing and she still denied associating with her even though I noticed a missed call from her on his moms phone. After that I haven’t heard from my bd and his family, then now I see his mom hanging with this girl all the time. So three weeks ago I finally decided to go talk to my bd in person at the jail (he’s been locked up since this 24 yr old girl started seeing him for a DUID, he is addicted to drugs but says he is done with drugs), well he denied my visit and decided to use his time for his new girl. So a week after that I went camping for my birthday and guess what?! He calls me on my birthday, I didn’t answer! Then his mom sends flowers to my house on my birthday! I don’t understand what their mission is but I am seriously an emotional wreck. For yrs I loved his family and him and I don’t understand. What the heck is going on? What do you think? What would you do? Oh and p.s. I guess his mom told his new girl not to listen or talk to me because I will feed her poison just to ruin what they have, but yet she sends me flowers on my bday?