Priscilla - posted on 03/11/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
I was dating a guy for years. We planned to have a baby. Once I got pregnant, everything changed! We was scared and didn't know what to do. He changed and got distant. HE wanted to go out and just didn't care to bond with me/baby. I know men are different... It takes time. My parents decided to put there opinion in., they don't like him and don't want him to have any rights. Which I think is wrong. My dad even was telling people the baby was not my exs so my ex wouldn't push for court. I want to be civil. I know me and my ex fell apart and he does have some anger issues... A lot of growing up to do as well, but I can't do that. I don't feel like that's right in my eyes. I feel like I'm torn, they don't want him at the birth... They don't want him to have weekends. I know he is my child but when I bring up my feelings they get pissed. They claim that just bc he is at the birth that court will have a reason to make me take a paternity test which is fine with me, they just want his rights taken away.what should I do?