Need advice AB. Fear of death HELP MOMS!!!

DonnaMarie - posted on 11/22/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Ok moms it need some help. For the last couple of weeks I have been so afraid of dying to the point I can't sleep at night. A little overview... My husbands parents are not good people. The father is an alcoholic and abuses his pain meds along with being extremely arrogant, and the mother is crazy. Keys peoples cars for no reasons, very disrespectful to my son and me, and always plays the victim. They have both made things very hostile with their lack of effort in my sons life after giving them multiple chances over and over again. My husband and I have given them a step by step guide almost on things they can do and change to make things better. They after having 3 chances haven't done anything. They are negative and horrible influences on my child and I don't want them near him anymore. They have also caused my husband and I relationship to be in shambles. Our marriage is on the rocks because of them. That's the issue god forbid anything ever happens to me because I have felt so guilty lately (bc I am not a bad person but want what's best for my son by leaving them behind) I can't guarantee my husband would keep those people away from my son if anything was to happen to me. HELP I feel like I'm going crazy? AM I WRONG?

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[momoftwo] - posted on 11/22/2013

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You're welcome :)
Remember past is in the past and he's got your back now so it's time for a positive future. Don't be afraid if you have to go back to councilling though. Good to hear that you guys did do it. It helps a lot.

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DonnaMarie - posted on 11/22/2013

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Thank you! And yes we have done marriage counseling for about two months but the problem is I resented him so bad bc he didn't have my back until about a month ago, trying to move past that.

[momoftwo] - posted on 11/22/2013

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I would keep them as far away from my family as much as possible whether it's for good or until they smarten up.
You three should go see a family/marriage councillor and I hope if you do it makes your family stronger with or without the grandparents.

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