Need advice about father of my child

Lilian - posted on 06/23/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




The father of my son and I aren’t together. We’ve tried to work it out, but we had issues with another girl that he didn’t want to get rid of. I told him I did not want to talk to him about anything else, but our son. He has trouble with this. He likes to tell me that he cares about me and loves me, but he is still seeing this other girl. I just ignore it and then he starts calling me childish, immature, and writing on social network that I was a psycho baby mama. That’s not all. I live three hours away. When school was in session I would drive our son down there every other Friday so I could attend a class and let them spend time together. Now that it is summer, I try to take our son down to him every two weekends. A couple weekends I had some weddings to attend down there, so I figured that would give him a chance to see his son. I also try to share with him our sons day and a picture every day. I want him in our sons life. I do get a little mad when he tells me he can’t see his son the day before when I had let him know I would bring him down a month in advance and that’s because he complains all the time about not seeing his son. He tells me all the time that I don’t care about their relationship and that I only bring him down when I have something to do. He never comes up here to see him. He expects me to go out of my way for him to see his son. He puts me down all the time and makes me feel like a horrible person and mom. I want to know what you all think. What should I do? Am I not doing enough? I just do not understand.


♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/24/2013




Get a custody/visitation agreement in place. Then he can't bitch about not seeing his kid enough, and you don't have to go out of your way to accommodate his "busy" schedule

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