Tiffany - posted on 09/09/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
The father of my children and I have been carrying on a physical relationship for the past 13 years. We both have had relationships in between, but never together because "he didn't want our friendship ruined if it turned into anything more." Anyways about a month ago I recieved a text message saying that he got someone pregnant, and that she is far along. Well far along as in the baby came that day. He was afraid to tell me because he didn't want to "lose me" and he is also not with this girl either as he said it just didn't work out and they were better as friends. Well we had slept together a week prior to me finding out a new baby was here. He his the entire pregnancy from his family, my kids and me. Anyways, while trying to deal with all the lies and dishonesty he has continued trying to have a physical relationship with me, and I have been giving in. The problem is since this all happened I feel deeply horrible emotionally after giving in to him. I want it to stop, but I am afraid to be the one to cut it off and if i do I am afraid to lose his friendship. I know this sounds crazy!! Help.