Lmartinez_712 - posted on 08/09/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )
My two year olds father recently took me to court for visitation rights. There was already a supervised visitation order in place until she turns three. I brought that up in court that the previous judge had very good reason not to allow our child into the apartment he lived in with his gf, because of his gfs behavior. She was recorded drinking alcohol with her 14 year old daughter. This order was in 2012. He decided to move to his home town which is 3 states away so the visits stopped. Well he moved back again because his gf got pregnant. Our daughter didn't see her dad in almost a whole year prior to court, however this judge awarded him over night visits every other weekend. I was totally devastated because she doesn't know him and he was basically a stranger to her. I also still breast her, which I'm sure I'll be getting some harsh judgment for sharing that. But she just isn't ready to stop and is a light eater so I feel the breast milk is good for her and makes up for the nutrients she doesn't get. She went to the first weekend visit and did hesitate to go at first, but went anyway. She came home somewhat different. She refuses to go into stores when we go anywhere. She has gotten kind of mean also. So the second visit came and she completely lost it when she saw him. She threw a huge fit and fought not to go. She cried harder than I've ever heard her cry. When it came down to it, I asked for her to just come home with me because she was clearly being traumatized by this. So he agreed but asked that next time she stay restrained in her seat and moved from one car to the other. I didn't agree to that at all, and felt that was inappropriate to do. Basically wants her tied down so he can take her. What can I do to help my baby and get a new arrangement ASAP?!