Imy - posted on 01/26/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hi all :)
Im 20 years old and i have a 13month old boy, i started dating this great guy about 6 months ago, he is 22. the relationship is everything i have ever wanted. but i have a problem.
He does occasionally spend time with my son, and whenever i ask him to watch my son he also does that willingly. I was just wondering at what point in time do i ask him to be more involved and bond with my son?? or if i even ask, or if i just let him do it in his own time? he has never been around children before so i do take that into consideration also. My son doesnt see his real father at all, and i can see this new relationship lasting a long time so i would love for my partner to be the father figure in my sons life.
Your advice would be greatly appreciated :)