Need advice! My son is 20 and don't care about nothing.

Jahaira - posted on 10/10/2017 ( no moms have responded yet )

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I don't even know where to begin. I have three children well grown but obviously still children.
I don't know what to do anymore my 20 year old son things that the world. He lives with this idea that everything has to be given to him. He has his idea that women aren't worth absolutely nothing. He states that the only thing women are good for to have sex and make babies that's it. Says he hates women. He a partner, had a child with her. She left him for another man and took her child. He says she also stole everything from him. And believe me I do understand his pain but he does not have to be unfair. He has this thought because of us women God condemn men. He states that because of Eve Adam and all men are being. He calls me out of my name all the time. He says he hates me , always has and always will. Every single time that he gets into any problem I always run to his rescue and then afterwards he treats me like nasty. I'm tired I've been through too much. I gave him an ultimatum yesterday. All he wants to do is Lay sleep play video games eat shit and piss. I told him to get a job or to go to school he refuses it's been 7 months and yesterday we got into a really big and I told him he has to leave. I know I'm being a bad mother by kicking him out of the street but I won't keep on having men disrespect me men treating me however no matter if that man is my son. Yesterday he got in my face and kept on telling me f*** you b**** over and over and over and over again. A friend had to hold me because honestly I'm so feed up that people think they can treat me like crap whenever that I was going to beat him. I wanted to but instead I threw him out. He will be living in the streets, in a shelter, in his friends house. I don't know but I do care but I can't. This is tearing me apart and I don't know what else to do. But I won't allow anyone else not even my child put his hands on me or even try.

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Lilian - posted on 10/11/2017

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I understand you're doing the best you can as a parent. Is dad involved in your children? During this time, have you considered getting your son to see a therapist? Letting him being disrespectful will only get worse & hurt him further. Because you love him and want him to be independent, responsible and respectful, that's why you need to make changes now. Talk to a professional therapist/ counselor and start from there. Hope things get better.

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