Need advice! My son is 20 and don't care about nothing.

Jahaira - posted on 10/10/2017 ( no moms have responded yet )

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I don't even know where to begin. I have three children well grown but obviously still children.
I don't know what to do anymore my 20 year old son things that the world. He lives with this idea that everything has to be given to him. He has his idea that women aren't worth absolutely nothing. He states that the only thing women are good for to have sex and make babies that's it. Says he hates women. He a partner, had a child with her. She left him for another man and took her child. He says she also stole everything from him. And believe me I do understand his pain but he does not have to be unfair. He has this thought because of us women God condemn men. He states that because of Eve Adam and all men are being. He calls me out of my name all the time. He says he hates me , always has and always will. Every single time that he gets into any problem I always run to his rescue and then afterwards he treats me like nasty. I'm tired I've been through too much. I gave him an ultimatum yesterday. All he wants to do is Lay sleep play video games eat shit and piss. I told him to get a job or to go to school he refuses it's been 7 months and yesterday we got into a really big and I told him he has to leave. I know I'm being a bad mother by kicking him out of the street but I won't keep on having men disrespect me men treating me however no matter if that man is my son. Yesterday he got in my face and kept on telling me f*** you b**** over and over and over and over again. A friend had to hold me because honestly I'm so feed up that people think they can treat me like crap whenever that I was going to beat him. I wanted to but instead I threw him out. He will be living in the streets, in a shelter, in his friends house. I don't know but I do care but I can't. This is tearing me apart and I don't know what else to do. But I won't allow anyone else not even my child put his hands on me or even try.

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Yasmeen - posted on 10/11/2017

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Girl, I wish a child of mine would try me like that and get up in my face. let alone call me a bitch. His lil ass would be stuck in the wall somewhere because thats how far he will be flying across the room when I punch him in his chest. lol. and Im dead serious. let him go. You've done all you could do at this point, and sometimes they have to learn the hard way. I don't care how mad he is, you are STILL his mother and he needs to respect you. He aint providing no help towards bills and seems that he isnt trying to anytime soon. The reason why he continues to be nasty towards you is because you allow him to and he knows youre not going to do anything about it. So he doesnt respect you. And when he doesnt respect you, then he treats you accordingly. But he also doesnt respect himself. Put him out, change the locks, and dont answer his calls. Its hard, but trust me, when he sees a change in you then he will think again about how he treats you under your roof.

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