Jennifer - posted on 03/16/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )
I have raised my SS since he was 3mths old. His father and I have two kids together as well. My SS man I hate using that word but any how is 9 yrs old now. His Bio mom has been nothing but a disappointment in his life, ours, and her parents life for the last 4yrs now. She has really never been a great mom but the last 4yrs she has gotten WAY worse. Now my SS is blaming himself. Wondering what he did wrong, why does she not want me ect... It is affecting his school work and behavior. We ALL have tried to talk to her but she makes lame excuses and is fine with her choices. My heart hurts because he hurts. We are at a loss on how to help him deal and not blame himself for her choices. She has parents raise him on her time. We share 50/50. He loves being with her parents but she barley see him on her days. Her and her men come first. How do you other step moms deal with this issue?