Andrea - posted on 08/20/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
I am 20 years old..and still in college. Right when I enrolled in the summer of 2014 I met the love of my life. When he was 20 he had a son in a very non-conventional relationship...with a stripper. She's a vile woman with three sons..all of which she has zero contact. Samuel is a sweetheart..but at times i feel as though he doesn't accept me into his family by saying things like, "well you dont have the same last name as us so you're not really in our family" mind you, he is 7. But he doesn't even know his real mother so he has no one to compare me to other than his father's most recent ex. who hasn't made an effort to continue their relationship.. I've been with his father, Jet for almost 2 years now..and I still feel like I'm doing something wrong... I am stern with him..not letting him use bad table manners, and making him clean up after himself..But NEVER mean.. He never wants to hold my hand snd sometimes glares at me..HELP?