Kassie - posted on 07/06/2011 ( 10 moms have responded )
i signed full custody over to my ex husband under the verbal agreement i could get them anytime i wanted them. and i signed because i had no job at the time no money all i had was the clothes i took with me and i did not want my kids to have to go through that. I have not had my kids over night since july of 2010. my ex has to pull them off me when i leave which breaks my heart in to, i have asked him so many time to let me have them for a weekend or a week. the last time i asked he said i am on vaction let me have peace, to which i replied when you think you can take the time out to talk to me please do i would really appreciate it since it does have to do with our kids, and all he said was k. that was 3 days ago. i see my kids once aweek because i live 1 and a half hours way and gas is very expencive. and he wont let them come stay with me at all. I know me cheating was not good but, i cant change it now. all i care about is my kids and i want joint custody with him i dont want to be like him and use our kids against each other that is not what a parent does. what do i need to do. please help me and dont judge me i have enough people doing that.