Tatiana - posted on 09/23/2016 ( 8 moms have responded )
My baby girl Is 9 months old. I am in court with her father. He wants visitation. But my baby does not know him or his gf whom I found out about when I was 7 months pregnant. I don't know his family I met them only one time. I can't stand him or any of them. Now we are due back in court November which means he will not see the baby until the judge decides if he gets visitation. He has not seen the baby since June and is asking my attorney if I can give him visits now so he won't miss out more time with the baby. I don't know if I should I have put my feelings to the side in the past and tried to get him involved but I felt like he didn't care about the baby he only cared about not losing his gf. I still think he doesn't care, he has not done anything to help with the baby but travels everywhere with his gf and her daughter and his two other kids from his ex wife. I know eventually the judge is going to give him visits because I heard they always do regardless of how the father is. So do I let it happen now so the baby gets to meet him ahead of time or wait for courts to decide? Let me mention I have gave him visits before and he had a problem coming to see her at my house he wanted to take the baby to his house since she was born and I didn't let him so he went to the courts a week after I served him papers for child support which he has not paid. There is an order of protection between us so we have no contact since June. What do I do?