Need advice please....

His Wife Their - posted on 11/23/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Quick version... Newly married, almost a yr. Have 1 daughter from previous relationship. She doesn't know her dad. We have 1 daughter together. Hubby and oldest daughter do not get along. I'm getting tired of the constant bumping heads and he says it's ruining our relationship. I am sooo tired to trying to be the peacemaker without being the other mean parent. He's been in my daughter life for almost 7yrs now. I'm finally to the point where I'm going to tell my Daughter about her real dad. He always says what my daughter is doing wrong, but won't admit to our daughters wrong doings. Am I wrong for finally wanting to tell her?

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His Wife Their - posted on 11/23/2014

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Hi. The only reason I didn't tell her before now, was because I felt like she was too young to understand. My now husband first met my daughter when she was 3 and has been taking care of her since. She's only 9. I told her, but I agree my husband and I also need to talk as well.

Michelle - posted on 11/23/2014

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You should have told her from the beginning that he isn't her Father, she needs to know.
On the other hand he also needs to stop treating the children differently. You are all living in the same house so it should be the same rules for everyone. I think you need to have a big talk with your husband and point out the way he treats the children. He's the adult so he should be able to consciously change the way he addresses things.

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