Alexandra - posted on 07/08/2013 ( 17 moms have responded )
Ok my son's father lives a hour and a half away. For 5 years I have recieved not even a ent of money. His mom has gave me money here and there for only gas so they could see him. I feel they do not respect me. Everytime I set a set date to get him home they will not bring him something conviently always happens. Not to mention his dad has no driver's license/ no job. Our son loves to go there he plays video games the whole time. But he has mention daddy doesn't have much food. So I just don't like the enviornment. They have threatned many times in the past 5 years that his mom was DCFS that they were going to get custody of him. But now that i finally went to a lawyer I found out all there lies were just threats. This past week he was suppose to be back Tues on Wed they said had a excuse so I gave them till THUR morning JULY 4th to get him home. They once again didn't and so i told them i would be there with the cops and so I did and he handed him right over but that again was him getting his way for me to pick him up. So i told him for now on if he wants to see him he would have to find a way to where we are and he can just visit for a few hours that is it!!! I am done with all this they have done this to me countless times. They think they have the upper hand and they do not no court order nothing. I do all this in the niceness and really for my son just to see them. They harass me all the time and I am done. So last night they call and his dad says when you coming over to daddy's and of course I have to explain to a 5 year old that he can see daddy but mommy has to be there. I am the bad guy in the end it looks like idk what to do advice to tell me what I am doing right or wrong would be great...