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Andreana - posted on 03/31/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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what should i do my husband ont help me with my almost two year old after he got some girl pregnant because she is his step kid but hes all she knows hes been her dad since bith

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Louise - posted on 04/01/2012

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At two years old she will not remember anything of him if you move away. Children are very strong and can bounce back from anything. If you stay with this man then your daughter will grow up knowing how unhappy you are and what a rat her father is. If you are ready to walk away from him then do so. Nobody deserves to be second best!

Michelle - posted on 03/31/2012

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If he is sleeping around then he doesn't deserve you. It doesn't matter that your daughter isn't his biological child, he merried you as a package deal. He obviously didn't take his marriage vows seriously anyway.



I would be more thinking about if I could stay with him than worring about him not helping out. I know that I couldn't handle that my 1st husband had cheated on me so I left.

Tabitha - posted on 03/31/2012

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Sounds like you'd be better off without him if he's gettin other girls pregnant! She's almost 2, she'll miss him for a bit, but she won't remember him in the long run.

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