Need anonymous, unbiased relationship advice... WARNING, MAY BE TMI FOR SOME!

Corinne - posted on 08/03/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )

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Really needed some outsiders opinions... my husband and I have only been together for eight months and I've been pregnant since we met (long story short, we feel head over heels in love and has stepped up to the plate as dad and couldn't be happier). I know that the first year of the relationship is supposed to be hot and heavy with passion but when you're pregnant, taking care of a 1 1/2 year old and dealing with everything else life comes sex is the furthest thing in my my mind.
However, he has never been with anyone else and I guess not being pregnant really gives him the extra boost of energy to always want some. I know that's not all he wants but it's so annoying for me sometimes and is causing tension. Is this normal for guys and he's just very open with me or am I not over reacting when I get frustrated with him?

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Kelsey - posted on 04/08/2013

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I was never into having sex when I was pregnant. I always felt like a beached whale, but anyways, my ex wanted sex all the time before I got pregnant, and when I was showing, he couldn't enough. I was annoyed and gave in anyways; just hoping it would satisfy him enough for me to get some R&R in. You should talk to partner calmly, preferably when you're comfy and have a full tummy and explain how you're feeling. Instead of having sex maybe you could try pleasuring him in different ways. Therefore you're both happy.

Lacye - posted on 08/03/2012

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In all honesty, my husband wanted me more when I was pregnant than when I wasn't. I'm not saying our sex life when I'm not pregnant isn't that great because for the most part it is. But it's like something clicks in his brain when I find out I'm pregnant and he wants it all the time! The sex is just better when a woman is pregnant.

User - posted on 08/03/2012

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I was gonna tell you about my husband hoping it would help and i dont know how he would feel about me posting about our sex life. :P

Corinne - posted on 08/03/2012

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A circle of mom's post is as anonymous as I want, I have no connection on here to people I really know haha

User - posted on 08/03/2012

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I tried to send you a message to give you my answer cuz i dont know how to post it anonymously but for some reason it wouldnt let me. If you are interested in what i have to say message me and i will reply :)

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