Debbie - posted on 04/09/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
I am daily wrestling between my kids and husband.
I re located to USA as i married a US gentleman my older 2 kids aged 21 and 23 are back in south africa and i left them with their dad who gave them a hard time since sept 2014. I have a 12 year old daughter too but shes here with me. I am very homesick and miss my children everyday. I am a nurterer in the making and i am going back to south africa in june. My husband is staying here and he will follow.i feel guilty re leaving him but i feel guilty re leaving my children who were distraught too. So thus i am torn between husband and kids? I have a void in my life and miss my family so much. Am i being unfair to my husband? He feels i choose my kids above him. I can only see my kids once a year and the seperation anxiety agfects me daily. I even became so depressed i was put onto meds. Please can you advise me re my decisions? I just want my family back in my life on a daily basis........is this wrong?