Odessa - posted on 07/09/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )
A friend and I had a baby mid Jan and he was confirmed to be his biological father at the end of May. He lives across Canada and works in AB. I am trying to get some information about how visits will work. He seems to think he can just uproot my son to Ontario every visit he gets, do you think the judge will allow this?
I want my sons father too play an active roll in my sons life, but I think it is too soon to take him to Ontario as they have spent a total of 4 hours together. I want our son to at least feel comfortable and have a relationship established before that happens.
Also, his father has made it very hard for me to trust him.. doesnt communicate anything to me, doesnt call when he says hes going too. I am the only listed parent on the birth certificate and am wondering what my rights are as a mother to insure my sons safety. Can I request only supervised visits be allowed until court is delt with?
He also seems to think he will be able to take my son for over night visits (he doesnt have a house in calgary) am i forced to allow our son to sleep at complete stragers house while visiting with his father?
I know im kind of all over the place, but I am a single mom looking for some answers :) any help would be greatly appreciated!