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I am stuck in a spot. My son is almost 5 years old, his dad has been around but not grown up to take care of his responsibilities as a parent. He still lives at home with his parents, no job, has abused drugs ( and i believe he still does ), He has caused allot of problems within my family, my family hates him. Unfortunately because he doesn't take care of his responsibilities, i have to ask his parents for help which they usually do. But the main issue is that if do not let him go on the weekends then he will go to my job and my house and cause lots of problems that i cant have going on. He has already got me in a situation where i had to pull out my own personally owned hand gun to stop him from being beating up by 2 people ( i have never been in trouble before this ) and because of this i am now on felony probation for the next year. Dont get me wrong im an adult and i took action and for that i am responsible, but without him this would not have happened, not to mention many other issues i have had to overcome because of him. I know this is allot of info but i have been dealing with this "issue" for the last 8 years and we have not been together or even lived together for the last 4 atleast. But i cant seem to be able to get away from him. Please help me figure out what to do. Thank you.