Megan - posted on 08/17/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
Me and my fiancé just had an argument a few days ago and I would like to get opinions he wants to have anal sex and I don't . I told him for me it is very painful and we have tried before but it hurts so bad and is so uncomfortable I truly don't want to. I'll be honest we have had a lot to drink the few times we have tried it but I don't think I can get drunk enough to really do it because of the pain and discomfort I feel. I mean it really does not even feel good, but I love him from the bottom of my heart and totally enjoy having sex with him all the time and our sex life is great besides this thing he wants to try I would really like some help or advice if anyone else has ever been in my position, I mean is their anything I can do about the pain or for that matter the discomfort I mean it feels like I have to go to the bathroom when he uses just a finger! Uugghh I'm so sorry to be so forward but I really would like some options and not have to feel embarrassed about talking about it. And I also heard if he ejaculates inside it can cause blockage that I would have to go to the doctors for is this ture? Please dont juge me I just want honest and ture options!