Carley - posted on 04/20/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )
I am from Madison Heights, MI. Im 22 (gonna be 23 in august) with twin girls right now age 8 months. I have been with my bf for almost 2 years. He is generally a good bf but right now we live with his family and he doesnt have a job and neither do i but i am going to school and being a stay at home mom. I love my bf but i have been noticing things im not to happy with :(. I have noticed he lies to me a lot especially about places hes going or things hes doing. he hangs out with almost all females and tends to avoid telling me about it but i know from his fb. He also always keeps his phone attached to them and never answers texts in front of me and erases them if im in the view to see. and never allows me to touch his phone. He loves me i know it and does everything he can for me and when he does get money he pays the bills and tries to get things for me and our daughters. but i dont like the fact that i think he is cheating or at least texting other women and flirting knowing it upsets me. ive tried to blow it off because i know their are worse situations then this. I feel like i need to get some ideas of what i would need to do to leave him. I have no money, i dont really have family to go to if i were to leave, and i am taking care of my girls and going to school online part time and have no license. I feel stuck and as a mom now i cant be stuck like this. PLease help if u have any ideas of how i could get some help or what i could do so that i do not have to depend on him and stay in a situation that i dont deserve to be treated like this.