Need some advice on father of baby not feeling the way I do.

Shannon - posted on 10/13/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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We've been together for just about 5 months. I ended up pregnant shortly after we started dating. We dated when we were younger and he had begun to have the same feelings as before. Now I find out he wishes I gave the kid up for adoption instead and he says that he has stayed with me because he cares about me and the kid he just doesn't know if he loves me more than a friend a not. Myself, I do love him and have for a long time in when he was in previous relationships. But, I never would allow him to cheat or anything. Anyway I found out today that from another girl he has talked to he wanted to give the kid up for adoption and hasn't cared about me really. I don't know what to do and I am sorry if it doesn't make much sense, but I do love him and want to be with him. I am keeping this kid, I decided that a long time ago and the kid will stay with me if I have him with me or not. I am just worried that he is scared more than anything. I know him well, but if anyone has any idea I would be very happy if they would share.

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Llarabi - posted on 10/13/2013

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You should keep the kid :) and also break up with him if you guys are going out or something.. However as long as you love him and he knows that you love him than he would take advantage of you because he knows that you love him so much that you would take him back with no exceptions. And also keep the baby and if he decides to act like a father than you should tell nim to prove it to you. And if he fails again than you have to try to live n your own

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