Need some help

Sunlight1 - posted on 01/11/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )

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Hello. I. Have this issue with my husband. The problem is his short temper and anger. He is doing mostly to our child who is 1 years old. When. He gets his frustration period and out child starts crying my husband starts yelling at him telling him he is a piece of s... That the child is the reason for marriage problems. Last time he kicked over the living room table making my baby fall over backwards. My baby always comes to me which makes my hubby more in rage he says that baby our child too much and that he turns out to be a bastard. I get mad at my husband all the time when he treats our child this way. He believes m kid does it on purpose just to piss him off. I fell weak really weak. I have been to a shelter before with my child. But here comes my issues I live in the USA but I am German. So i have no friends or family here in the USA. No support at all. There are previous documents from his behavior at the police. Including him locking me in the house one time. He used to physically abuse me really bad including black eyes. I just can't forgive him even now he's stopped doing it. But he threatens to bear our son if he don't stop crying. He then says he would never do it just saying it. I have stomach pains and other physical problems now every day because of how things are. In trying to make things work. Problem is in my country I would get much more support. I'm confused I don't know if this will ever get better. I think I gave him enough chances we have been together for 3 years. At the beginning whe he physically hurt me I believed his excuses that he was stressed because of military service but it continued even after he left service. I don't think he will ever change he won't make use of therapy either

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