Need some positive words or support!

User - posted on 01/14/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I need advice and some support. I’m 20 years old and my little girl is 5 months old. The day she was born they did an ultra sound to see her because they couldn't pick up her heart beat. They seen there was water on the brain. I delivered her in a small town so with the fluid on her brain they wanted her to be sent to a children’s hospital right after I delivered. The pregnancy went very well and my little girl was so beautiful me and my babies dad got to see her for less than five minutes and she had to be flown to a children’s hospital . It was the hardest thing to see your child be rolled out of the room and taken in a helicopter to a different hospital. Seven hours after delivery her I was able to leave the hospital so I could be with my baby. She was in the NICU where they were running test and trying to figure out was all was wrong. Then a group of doctors came in and told us that “your little girl won’t make it past 24 hours” it was the hardest things to hear. They diagnosed her with bilateral carotid artery infarction. This basically means she had two strokes in the womb. I stayed at the hospital that night with her the next morning the doctors came in and they were surprised that my little girl had made it through the night. They then said if she does make it she won’t live very long and she will have to have a breathing tube along with a feeding tube. But she was able to eat and breath on her own the doctors where so surprised. She got to go home after 4 days of being in the NICU. She was doing very well we had to go to the doctors all the time. And she was growing and doing very well. When she was 3 months old she had to have a shunt placed in her head because she has hydrocephalus. She was in the hospital for 7 days. Then when she was 4 months old they found out that she has high blood pressure she was in the hospital for 4 days because they had to find a medication for her. For her five month checkup we went to the doctor and they diagnosed her with muscular dystrophy, cerebral palsy, hydrocephalus and middle cerebral artery infarction (she only has 15% of a brain). Since she was a week old I got her physical therapy and occupational therapy and she’s in parents as teachers. I just want what’s best for my daughter and lately my parents have been telling me that my daughter was a mistake and I brought her into this live with all these problems that she didn't deserve. And just going on and on about how I’m a bad mother. I just want to know if anyone’s going through a similar situation or if anyone has any positive words to say to me.

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Jennifer - posted on 01/14/2013

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Dont let your parents tell you that you're a bad mother. She is your miracle baby and I think you are doing a wonderful job. When my son was a year and half he had a small bowel, liver pancreas transplant. I didnt know if he was gonna live day to day. When he got his transplant the docs told me he only had a week to a month to live cause his liver was the size of 9 year olds. Today he is 7 years old and in 1st grade. Hes doing great and he is my miracle baby. Just tell your parents that you need their support and you dont appreciate them telling you that you are bad mother. The thing is you really dont know whats gonna be wrong with your baby when you're pregnant. God has a plan for your daughter and apparently hes not ready to take her away from you. Be strong and keep up the good work:)

Jennifer - posted on 01/14/2013

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Dont let your parents tell you that you're a bad mother. She is your miracle baby and I think you are doing a wonderful job. When my son was a year and half he had a small bowel, liver pancreas transplant. I didnt know if he was gonna live day to day. When he got his transplant the docs told me he only had a week to a month to live cause his liver was the size of 9 year olds. Today he is 7 years old and in 1st grade. Hes doing great and he is my miracle baby. Just tell your parents that you need their support and you dont appreciate them telling you that you are bad mother. The thing is you really dont know whats gonna be wrong with your baby when you're pregnant. God has a plan for your daughter and apparently hes not ready to take her away from you. Be strong and keep up the good work:)

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