Haley - posted on 11/17/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )
My boyfriend, has a 13 month old son, whom I take care of. The BM is hardly around. Yet she acts like she is the highest and the mightiest. I respect her in every way possible! She texts me every once in a while to see how her son is doing, and i text her back. Let her know what's going on. But the reason for the post is what she said today to set me off. She has court today and doesn't have gas to make it. She expected me or my boyfriend to provide her with money, we both are broke due to taking care of her child. So i said there's nothing i can do. So she carries on to call me a B*tch, and says all kinds of rude things to me. And what do i do? nothing! i take it! i take all of her rude comments and gestures towards my boyfriend. I'm beyond stressed and reaching some sort of limit. I chose to be a parental role in this childs life and did so fully realizing she will always be in my life,, but what do I do about this?! It's very hard to handle. Any advice?