Rachel - posted on 12/11/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
Hi All, I need some advice on the best way forward. My ex husband has seen our Daughter (10) once in 3 years. I kept trying to get him to meet me and sort this out as I know she wants to see him. Feb 12 he agreed to meet and I agreed to all access that he wanted, Every other weekend Friday -Sunday. However I stated that initially it would be for the day as she hadnt seen him, his girlfriend or their little girl for so long. The first visit he saw her on his own, so I had said she needed to spend time with his girlfriend and daughter first before she stayed the night. The day he so supposed to pick her up he just didnt bother coming.
Since then I have tried at various times to arrange another meet which he has refused until October 13 when he agreed, however he couldnt make the date I gave so I have been waitting for him to re arange since.
Yesterday was her birthday and at 7pm he turned up on my doorstep unannounced. He handed her a present gave her a hug and left, leaving her in tears. She has said she feels confused now that he has turned up as she doesnt know how long till she sees him again.
Where do I go now???? Do I push him for another meeting to come to an agreement and hope he sticks to it? or do I leave it and wait for him to make contact again? HELP!!!!!!!