Kelsey - posted on 04/03/2013 ( 8 moms have responded )
Well, my great grandfather died on Easter Sunday. We are all heartbroken here, since my family is very small to begin with. Somehow, my ex found out that I lost my grandfather and wanted to attend his funeral/visitation/wake to "pay his respects".
At first I told him that, I wasn't sure if my family would be okay with it, since they all hate him. But that's a different story. I know that I didn't want him there because somehow it would make this about himself or he would make this about him and me, by either making a pass or fighting with me. When I had told him that I wasn't sure that my family would like it; he changed it up to say that, he wanted to be there for his son. My baby is 11 months, I highly doubt that he knows what was going on.
So I told him no, that I don't think my family wants you there. We only dated for two and half years and were engaged for a short while, since our break-up I've been keeping my life from him and yet, he wants to nose around in it anyways and takes every opportunity to fill me in his life even when I don't care any. I didn't tell my family about this, because I didn't want to make them even more emotional.
How would you guys handled this?