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Haley - posted on 11/12/2015 ( 7 moms have responded )

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Recently I had a miscarriage on Oct. 20, 2015 at 27 weeks , it was devastating. But my fiance and i are doing okay for it to have been our first baby ever. So I've had some questions about how quickly I can get pregnant not being on any birth control or using any condoms because we just was having fun and I know TMI (but where all women) but we wanted to have fun and I haven't been to my 6 weeks post pardam and he stuck it in but he did not ejaculate but he did prejaculate ... Could I be pregnant from that ? I wouldn't believe so . but could I have as much feedback as possible . thank you

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Sarah - posted on 11/12/2015

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Gross, "precum" really? Yes sperm can be present in pre-ejaculation fluid. How about we all start treating ourselves with some respect and our male partners as well by at least using tasteful terms? At 27 weeks, you had a fetal demise and should even have a death certificate. I am very sorry for your loss. I would think less than a month later not a healthy time to have sex. Period. Your body would have had a fully functioning placenta and a 27 week fetus is a viable birth. Are you sure you have your info right?

Haley - posted on 11/12/2015

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I know I can get pregnant I'm saying with his precum ... But thanks you guys very helpful ...

Jodi - posted on 11/12/2015

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I'm sorry, but if you don't know that you can get pregnant with unprotected sex at ANY time, then you DO need to educate yourself before you have sex.

Raye - posted on 11/12/2015

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You should talk to your doctor about when your body will be healed enough to safely become pregnant again. If you don't want to be pregnant right away, use condoms every time or don't go hear his penis.

Haley - posted on 11/12/2015

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I came on here for feedback not for no one to get smart that you for your words but you have to work on how you say things don't make people feel dumb

Jodi - posted on 11/12/2015

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OMG, if you don't know you could potentially already get pregnant, please stop having sex until you have some decent sex ed and understand how your body works. Of course you could possibly be pregnant. Firstly you had sex. But secondly you used no birth control. If you don't want to be pregnant yet, then STOP. You could already be ovulating again and you wouldn't know it. You ovulate BEFORE you get your period back, so you never know when you will be fertile again - just because you haven't had a period yet means nothing.

Also, it is odd to call a loss at 27 weeks a miscarriage. Is that what they called it? Generally that would be a stillbirth.

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